


We just wanted to say hello and give a quick update. There isn’t much going on in our lives and yet it always seems out of control. I don’t know why this is always the case but ‘stuff’ is consuming our time. I have been doing a lot pictures this fall for the Christmas season. That and my weekly trips to the dentist take up all spare moments. That’s right-6 cavities, 2 crowns and a root canal (with a pretty sure bet my jaw that is bothering me still means another in the coming weeks). It’s been really depressing for one who religiously brushes and flosses. The dental bills after my pregnancies are way more than the doctor and hospital bills we pay to have the baby. Oh well.
Josh was finally released as nursery leader. I got so many compliments from the ward on how good he was at it. I don’t think it’s necessarily nursery that he’s good at-but being in charge. He is always coming up with some way to make things better or run smoother. Anyway he’s the elders quorum secretary and I'm going to miss him having a ‘Sunday only’ calling. Oh well, at least now he might learn the names of some people in the ward instead of referring to them as “Bostons’ Dad” and “Carolines’ mom etc.
James is not making Christmas easy for us. He can’t think of what he wants. I’m sure he would be happy with anything but I want him to be SO happy when he opens his present. He is always asking me things that I don’t know how to answer. “Why is it sit up AND sit down?” A more recent conversation with Josh went, “Dad, is Santa Clause a real person?” Josh wasn’t ready for this. “What do you think?” Although James was deep in thought, he didn’t respond. I think they were both scared of getting their question answered.
Sam is just a crazy man looking for some attention between his demanding old brother and the all consuming baby. He is finding winter very hard. He doesn’t like to wear clothes you see “they bug me.” As soon as he get in off come the pants, off comes the shirt, and in his unders he lives. It’s really hard to tell him no he’s so dang cute.
Josh and I have been trying some new parenting techniques. We decided on trying to freeze him into clothes. We have had the thermostat a good 5 below normal for days and he still refuses. He just jumps around the house to stay warm. “I like cold.” He has also been very hard to put down for bedtime. The other night after the tenth time of him opening his door and tip-toeing out we tried to think of something to do without resorting to spanking. The inspiration came. Josh waited by the door until it slowly opened by a trying to be sneaky 2 years old. “Roarrrrrrrrrrrr!” Josh yelled as he jumped right into the unsuspecting face. “AAAHHHHHHHHH!” The two boys yelled in sincere fright. Sam ran back to his bed and didn’t make a sound the rest of the night. I don’t know if this is in any parenting books yet-but it’s a proven method.